My Life is Short Challenge
How my Life is Short Challenge started
I wrote a blog post back in April 2016 about how I was going to do 62 challenges in 62 months to distract myself from all the legal drama that was stretching out after my mother’s tragic death in October 2015. In just over five years, I wanted to achieve the many goals, trips and personal challenges that I’d short-listed as my ultimate bucket list.
It wasn’t easy to choose the final list, even back then – I could have filled it twice over with places I wanted to visit, skills I wanted to learn or materialistic things I thought I wanted to own. However, when it came down to it, the original final list was quite reflective of me – at the time. I was a ‘soft’ adventurer, rather than hard-core (yet still taking me out of my comfort zone) and I love the natural and historic world, rather than festivities and lots of people (unless it’s a rugby tournament). I like to spark my imagination, but I also want to help educate the world – particularly under-privileged girls.
The challenges also reflected many of my childhood interests and aspirations – places in my favourite books, becoming a teacher, using the languages I learned at school and continuing to write fiction. I’ve always strived to achieve, so there are some ultimate dreams of ‘best-seller’ and ‘award-winning’. Some of the challenges involved glitz and glamour , and some involve camping rough, donning a hammer and quite possibly shovelling animal manure (none of these things I do very often as an adult – apart from DIY).
Then there was new personal challenges have come to the forefront of my mind – helping people overcome the loss of loved ones, livelihoods and their homes, coping with sudden tragedy, and finally, finishing off a few of the trips that my Mum had planned to do in the coming few years.
The original 62 challenges can be read here.
What happened?
Life happened. Or more specifically, not the life I had intended. I spent the first 8 months of the challenge (April – November 2016) striving ahead and achieving several challenges. The pace then began to slow after December 2016 as the legal side of my mother’s death case kept being stretched. My mental health really started to deteriorate, and the effects of PTSD, particularly feelings of anger and victimisation, began to take hold.
2017, while it had a few highlights around my 40th birthday in April/May, was a bad year. As much as I tried to get back on track, achieve my goals, and be positive, it felt like my life was on someone else’s timeline. I had no control over certain things, and we had the worst timing on so many things – on my 40th birthday, the Prosecutors sent an update that wasn’t great for my mood, and while my sister was in labour with her second child, several members of the family were at court for another hearing (that then got postponed). I’ve written a much longer post about this timeframe, which you can read here.
By the time I started to improve my mental health, it was late 2019, and by my original timeline, I should have been 45 months into my 62 months. I made the decision to reboot the Life is Short Challenge, deducting the completed 9 months and restart the clock for the final 53 months from January 2020. I also re-evaluated the list, and made some changes that reflected where I was in my life 4 years on.
And then 2020...
2020 (and 2021 and even into 2022) – the years that everyone wish hadn’t happened. Considering how many of my challenges were travel orientated, the pandemic definitely put a scupper on plans. With a positive attitude, I thought I could still focus on other challenges and still make progress, but I ended up changing jobs at the beginning of the pandemic and spent the next few years working all hours.
So, my official reboot date became February 2023.
And so without further ado, here are the new overall categories. The individual challenges are also detailed on linked pages. If you are interested in helping me achieve a challenge, reach out here.
The 62 Challenges
CHALLENGES TO CHANGE THE WORLD
in progress
Challenge 1 >
Raise one million pounds >
in progress
Challenge 2 >
Victim's rights >
in progress
Challenge 3 >
1000 hashtags >
achieved
Challenge 4 >
Changes in email marketing >
to do
Challenge 5 >
Centre for unemployed/homeless people >
achieved
Challenge 6 >
Rebuild a Nepalese school >
PERSONAL GOAL CHALLENGES
in progress
Challenge 9 >
Organised & de-cluttered my home >
in progress
Challenge 10 >
Launch inspoverse business >
in progress
Challenge 11 >
Complete courses & learning >
to do
Challenge 12 >
Attend Date with Destiny >
in progress
Challenge 13 >
Manage/reverse my lipodema >
in progress
Challenge 14 >
Capture & document moments >
in progress
Challenge 15 >
Journalling >
in progress
Challenge 16 >
Mental Health recovery >
in progress
Challenge 17 >
Imposter Syndrome & Perfectionalism >
UPSKILLING CHALLENGES
to do
Challenge 18 >
Learn to surf >
to do
Challenge 19 >
Learn to sew >
achieved
Challenge 20 >
Contouring the face >
BIG LIFE GOAL CHALLENGES
in progress
Challenge 23 >
Best-selling fiction author >
to do
Challenge 24 >
Award-winning screenwriter >
to do
Challenge 25 >
Award-winning children's author >
to do
Challenge 26 >
Film/TV adaptation of my novel >
to do
Challenge 27 >
Meet my childhood inspiration >
to do
Challenge 28 >
Watch my niece perform a duet >
to do
Challenge 29 >
Dream home >
to do
Challenge 31 >
Stephanie Allin wedding dress >
in progress
Challenge 32 >
Clear debt/financial freedom >
to do
Challenge 33 >
Positive Psychology Masters >
to do
Challenge 34 >
Meet a member of the Royal Family >
to do
Challenge 35 >
Family education >
to do
Challenge 36 >
Own a car >
to do
Challenge 37 >
Have a dog & a cat (or two) >
TRAVEL CHALLENGES
achieved
Challenge 38 >
Everest Base Camp trek >
to do
Challenge 39 >
Trekking the Inca Trail >
to do
Challenge 40 >
Great Wall of China Trek >
to do
Challenge 41 >
Sail the fjords of Norway >
in progress
Challenge 42 >
UK Bucket List Destinations >
to do
Challenge 43 >
Scottish Highlands & Islands >
to do
Challenge 44 >
Tasmania driving tour >
to do
Challenge 45 >
Rugby World Cup 2023 >
to do
Challenge 46 >
Carmen (the opera) >
to do
Challenge 47 >
Colosseum in Rome >
achieved
Challenge 48 >
First Class upgrade >
to do
Challenge 49 >
Hamptons clam-bake >
to do
Challenge 51 >
Sri Lanka & the Maldives >
to do
Challenge 52 >
Serengeti migration >
to do
Challenge 53 >
Turtle conservation >
to do
Challenge 54 >
Yellowstone National Park >
to do
Challenge 55 >
Dorset 'Famous Five' adventure >
to do
Challenge 56 >
Anne of Green Gables' Canada >
to do
Challenge 57 >
Transylvania walk >
to do
Challenge 58 >
Cherry Blossoms in Japan >
to do
Challenge 59 >
Angkor Wat >
to do
Challenge 60 >
Alaskan cruise >
to do
Challenge 61 >
Lapland Northern Lights >
to do